Thanks to all friends that have been supportive of me,no matter in their care and concern and also the actions that they done to tell me that they r here to stay,their promises that they are along the way to give me support… to tell me that promises are always meant to be kept…. They are just like stars in the dark skies that give me a glimmer of hope and shine…
I always thought that if i be nice to my friends,they would be also nice to me.Yes but efforts always paid off and this earns me a lots of true hearted friends. Their care and concern really touched me. Thanks you my true friends…
But sad to say,today is the first x in my life that i’m going to decide to stop having this friend,the seriousness that i don’t intend to reveal this person’s identity. Let’s refer this person as XX. XX is a caring friend who helps friends and gives advice to people whenever people need XX at the start.That y i thought XX is a good friend,that y if i got e time i would try to meet XX,and chat. XX was good and kind in the beginning. But lately i start to realise that XX is bad-tempered person and hurt his friends thru XX words. XX is self-centred now,only XX can talk about XX troubles,if i try to console,XX is not appreciative and said i dont understand.When i talk about my problems like before,XX is no longer sensitive like B4,XX thought my problems was stupid and not important,XX used words to hurt me. When one day i can no longer tolerate, and try to tell XX the attitude problem nicely,XX shift the blame to me that it is me who misunderstand XX.The worst thing is that XX would talk bad things about my other friends, even XX dont know them ,saying they r not true friends,judging from wat XX feels only…
(things that happened to us)
Scenario 1
Me : Haiz i feel sad…..u know i…U understand???
XX : It’s none of my business,why should i understand???
Me : ???? (Dumbfounded)
Scenario 2
XX : Shouldn’t have taken this road,got such traffic jam….
Me : It’s ok,we’ll not in a hurry,can enjoy and appreciative the festival deco on the way….
XX : I don’t know how to appreciate arts…(Looking frustrated)
Me : ???? (thinking : u thought i know how to appreciate arts meh??,jus say to make u feel better)
Scenario 3
XX: My work got a lot of stress…. U know… If i dont…, than it will be very stress to others..
Me : Dont worry,i think u r experienced to be able to handle that. Anyway jus try ur best…
XX: WAT?? u think experienced can meh, u r wrong….U dont know the stress lah…
Me : ok lah, jus wan to tell u that jus relax and try ur best,too stressed not too gd…
XX : AIYAH u dont understand lah…!!!
Me : i….( Being interrupted by XX)
XX : U STOP talking,CAN U !!! u dont understand lah..
Me : ( ?????)
Conclusion :
XX is actually a self-centred and selfish person who hurt friends thru words. i have try to persuade XX many times for this attitude problem only to be blamed instead hence i feel that XX is not worth to be my friend. Friends who know me should know that i’m a very easygoing person who doesn"t ask much from friends,only to be there for each other when who needs me and help in watever i can. But i really cannot be friend with a person who don’t respect his friends or treat his friends like a piece of shit… (FRiends not born to be insulted by u)
AND THE WORST XX NEVER ADMIT XX FAULTS!!!!!
Farewell XX,u should know who u r>>>
